9.16.2015

Simple Blessings and Happy Thoughts

Life and death are delicate. We're in the process of re-writing our will in case something should happen to us. Ugh, I hate dealing with the thought of ever leaving S behind. But it's a necessary part of being an adult and responsible parent. And such somber thoughts are a good refresher on perspective. (In case you haven't noticed, God has provided a lot of these reminders for me to keep life in perspective lately. It's sort of a theme in my life the past couple of months, and I have a lot of conviction for it.)

I am so grateful for the modest yet sweet life I live. It's easy to play the comparison game and wish I had this or that, thinking someone else's life looks so perfect, especially in this age of social media when we only see a part of people's lives. We see the most charming part, or whatever they want us to see, and sometimes it just looks like everything a person touches turns to gold. But that's not real life. Life is hard. For everyone. And I have so much joy to celebrate. I am rich in so many ways--the ways that matter most. And as far as the material stuff--we're doing alright. No reason to complain at all. 



So I'm taking stock of the things I have to be thankful for:

My adoring, hard-working husband, who is my best friend and love of my life
My precious daughter, who has brought me more joy than I could have ever imagined, and whose smiles light up any room
A family who, regardless of physical distance, remains close
Friendships that span decades and, even with long periods of time apart, always pick up where they left off
A tiny home that sometimes seems to be falling apart and is in desperate need of updating, but provides us with shelter and comfort, and was the birthplace of my daughter
My Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who took beatings and stretched out His precious hands and shed blood for my sins so that I can spend eternity with Him in heaven
God's Word, a.k.a. life's instruction book
Coffee
A working vehicle with 201,417 miles--it's old and loud but still ticks and gets us from place to place
Coffee
The gift of staying home with my daughter and the cherished opportunity to care for our home (even on days when I don't get to shower and I'm tired and it's soooo hard)
Coffee
My education, a privilege which has given me the ability to support my family and introduced me to many kind people
Coffee
The beautiful mountains nearby and the majesty of creation
New friends with whom to navigate the unfamiliar waters of motherhood


Coffee.



Those are some of the bigger things, but the little things are what really make up life: 

S saying "mama" and running toward me, her little arms wide open, when I enter the room
Apple-pumpkin scented candles
A day breezy enough to open the windows
The smell of fresh real drip coffee
15 minutes of quiet time
Prayer
Afternoon naps
Movie dates with the hubs (usually on the couch, but treasured just the same)
Finishing a good book
Starting the last book's sequel
Changing fall leaves
Making the traffic light
A close parking space
A chocolate mint after dinner
Tabletop flowers
A good Sunday morning sermon
Grilled cheese and tomato soup
Laughter
The cold side of the pillow
Freshly laundered sheets
Watching bird dogs work
Looking through picture albums




What simple blessings bring you happiness today?